This is the first portion of a lecture I delivered on goals and habits.
Time is precious. Your time is marked when you’re young by
holidays, usually Christmas or birthdays. As you grow older, those markers
become more closely aligned, because you have more years behind you. As you
grow, your memories collapse together. The question is, what will you do with
your time?
Time is a gift, just as any other type of wealth. Every
person is allotted 24 hours in a day, 365 ¼ days a year. Why do some people
accomplish more than others? Because of the way they use time. If you are lazy,
you will not accomplish as much. On the other hand, others follow the tyranny
of the urgent, only doing the things that are in front of them, rather than
investing your time beforehand. Don be that person either. We are called to
invest, to be good stewards of our time. This doesn’t mean we only work all
day, every day. It means we plan beforehand for how we will spend our time. ‘
One of the saddest things to hear is someone who is older
who regrets wasting their time on their daily job, their bad habits, or selfish
behavior. It is not possible to have everything you want; scarcity is still
with us. But God has given you gifts, abilities, wealth, and time to use those
things.
Your life is not your own. Throughout your life there will
be stops, starts, energy, and lack thereof. Yet in everything, God controls
your life. You belong to Him and He calls you to use your gifts to honor Him.
The direction of your life is largely in front of you. You
have a multitude of options available, based on your gifts or skills. The
choices you make in the next several years will determine the path you follow,
the person you marry, and the eulogy that will read about you at your funeral.
We will talk about those choices soon, but this week we must
consider the first objective: setting goals and building habits. A goal is not
just a task, but a building-block to the type of person you want to become.
Years ago, when our family moved out to Idaho, the trip took 36 hours of
driving, not including stops. Our final destination was Lewiston, Idaho, but
there had to be planning beforehand. I planned four stops along the way. We
would stay there each night and go the next morning. I realized my planning was
not thorough enough because one of the stops, Denver, CO, unbeknownst to me,
had three major events going on and every hotel within a 1-hour radius of the
city was booked. We ended up driving until almost 1:30 in the morning and
staying 1 and ½ hours further north.
You should have one or two final goals, the things you want
to do with your life, which will probably resemble the final goal of others.
But the stops along the way will be different for each of you, based on where
you are. The stops along the way are your goals now. I thought Lewiston might
be a long-term place for us to live, but it turned out that we only lived there
two years. Then we repeated the trip back, although to a different place in
Alabama. Your life will change and you will have to adapt at times, but your
goals are still attainable.
Why set goals? They require you to set a destination. You’ve
probably hear the saying, “If you aim at nothing, you’ll hit it every time.”
That is true. There must be something you want to achieve.
They must be goals that motivate you. You won’t pursue them
if they don’t. It will probably be something that you appreciate or want to
become.
They should be SMART (https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newHTE_90.htm).
Specific – they must be clear, not vague. For example, when
we traveled instead of saying, “Denver, CO,” I should have said, “The Holiday
Inn Express at 123 Johnson Street in Denver.”
Measurable – you must know how you can determine whether or
not you met the goal.
Attainable – if it is not within your reach in the time you
set, you will get discouraged and be more tempted to quit.
Relevant – they should be in the service of the general
direction you want to go. If we were travelling from Alabama to Idaho, we
shouldn’t set a goal of stopping in Maine. It’s not relevant to our main goal.
Time Bound – there should be a specific time you plan on
achieving your goal. If not, you will flounder. We planned on driving
approximately 9-10 hours each day on our trip west. Establishing a time (create
a website in 6 months) puts you under the gun.
Finally, they must have an action plan, a method
of putting the steps towards achieving that goal into practice. In our
traveling case, the action plan were the roads we’ve travel to get where we
wanted to be at the end of each day.